An Emotional Haven
By Hend Seif El Din

Whether you agree on the garage, extra room, the basement or the roof of your house, making a man cave available really has its plusses, sinceโby definitionโit is a dedicated space in the house (or attached to the house) where a man can be alone and/or socialize with his friends.
After deciding on the locationโand yes, both parties need to be in agreement about thisโit is time to think of a theme. Most man caves go for movie and sports themes, and recently more music-related themes are being used. Now that thatโs settled, it is time for the โitโ items, which need to be in every man cave. First in line is the pool table. Why? Billiard rooms are usually male-dominant, or at least seem to be one of the more common locations chosen for male gatherings. Secondly, add a bar and mini fridge. For starters, a wooden, elegant bar, adds flair and luxury, while a mini fridge is vital for storing drinks and snacks; you do not want to be running to the kitchen every time you have โmaleโ guests to entertain!
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Next, do not forget to add an ultra-modern television. Opt for a sleek, modern flat screen and hang it up on a desired wall. Also, you might consider building it into a piece of furniture to add practicality and usability to the space. While youโre at it, why not consult with home theater experts to add an extra dash of luxury?
Geeky gadgets also seem to be on many man cavesโ list of items. From computing gadgets to fishing onesโdepending on your interests of courseโfeel free to indulge in nerdiness! Games are also important. From arcade games to board games, the skyโs the limit. Also, do not forget to include sports equipment to keep you fit. Think of smaller items, like dumbbells, a bench press, or a jumping rope, to keep you in shapeโฆand in some casesโฆrelieve stress when needed.
Why not add a desk? In some instances, man caves are also partially used as offices. Donโt forget to have some reading material lying around; sometimes you might just be in the mood for a good read. If youโre a coffee-lover, include a vintage coffee machine in your dรฉcor, to add flair and a sense of nostalgia to your cave.
When it comes to your overall dรฉcor, do avoid looking messy and opt for a more practical and comfortable environment; think โusability.โ Add comfortable sofas, a cozy rug and a few touches of rustic, industrial or contemporary accents, depending on your personal taste. Speaking of sofasโor seating in generalโthere is a short list of โwinnersโ in this category; the gold medal goes to the womb chair and ottoman by Eero Saarinen, silver goes to the ball chair by Eero Aarnio and the RAR Chair by Charles Eames is a proud winner of the bronze medal.


For an insured luxurious feel, choose dark wooden furniture to create a more old-fashionโyet timelessโspirit. Keep it fresh with some vintage wall dรฉcor, such as framed vintage ads or posters.
The most important thing to remember, is that this is a manโs true sanctuary, where he should surround himself with his most-treasured and loved items. Now, for you men out there, please bear in mind, that this cave should not be messy, remember the magic words โpractical,โ โusable,โ โcomfortable,โ and while youโre at it, make sure you add a touch of flair to your unique space.
